1231
Jan 31
pompadoursandpincurls:

Oddly enough, this makes me feel a little better.

pompadoursandpincurls:

Oddly enough, this makes me feel a little better.


113
Jan 31
Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal.
Albert Camus (via davidandthefinchers)

10
Jan 31

137
Jan 31
What about encouraging men to talk with their partners about sex, find out what they do and don’t want to do, and get an enthusiastic “yes” before proceeding? Teaching men communication skills that will lead to a happy “yes” is more productive than ordering them to respect a “no,” especially since not all sexual violence survivors verbally say “no” when they’re being assaulted.

Men and Sexual Violence: Moving Beyond ‘No Means No’ (via fuckmedapperqueer)

even better, let’s teach this to everyone………

(via insurrectionarygrapefruit)


709
Jan 31

(Source: atheistme)


92
Jan 31

sluttybitchhh:

It’s so typical for people, mostly men, to think that a woman’s world revolves around men. People have questioned the genuineness of my actions/activities assuming that I only did them for men and not for myself. Even as a little girl I got the “You’re only looking pretty to meet a boy” and it went from that to “You’re only wrestling to meet boys” which I fucking hated hearing. I even had one of Mission’s assistants ask me that. it completely ignores everything that I’ve put into the sport. Do people really fucking think that I went to practice & worked out every single day, restricted my diet, bruised up my body, lost my weekends to tournaments, got into endless arguments with my parents, received sexist remarks from classmates and other wrestlers and other shit just to meet a fucking boy?! Jesus fucking christ. it seems like women can’t fucking do anything without someone thinking it’s for a man. Well guess fucking what? My life does not and never will revolve around finding a man. I do not dress for you. I do not have sex just for your pleasure. I do not take up activities for you. I do not smile for you. I do not fucking exist for you.


5
Jan 31
fem-blog:

Yeah, really not a fan of this Museum of Sex advertisement…FAIL.

fem-blog:

Yeah, really not a fan of this Museum of Sex advertisement…FAIL.


10390
Jan 29
Although most boys figure out how to bring themselves to orgasm by age thirteen, half of girls don’t have their first orgasms until their late teens, twenties, or beyond. Teenage girls widely agree that they get the message loud and clear that masturbation is something boys do, but girls don’t, can’t, or shouldn’t. The cultural focus on intercourse tells young women to expect they’ll begin to experience sexual pleasure once they have sex with a man (whether or not they’re even interested in sex with men). Nearly all teen boys, on the other hand, experience sexual pleasure long before they get their hands—or other body parts—into a partner’s pants. Despite the massive advances in women’s equality, young women’s sexuality is stuck in a surprising paradox. Young women are sold provocative clothes but aren’t taught where to find their own clitoris. Many girls give their boyfriends oral sex, but are too uncomfortable with their own bodies to allow the guys to return the favor. It’s still a radical act to say that women need and deserve access to information about their own sexual pleasure—not just about the risks and negative consequences of sex.

753
Jan 28
descends:

nothing art for the nothing people

descends:

nothing art for the nothing people


Jan 28

JP Cooper - I’ve been needing you