It’s so typical for people, mostly men, to think that a woman’s world revolves around men. People have questioned the genuineness of my actions/activities assuming that I only did them for men and not for myself. Even as a little girl I got the “You’re only looking pretty to meet a boy” and it went from that to “You’re only wrestling to meet boys” which I fucking hated hearing. I even had one of Mission’s assistants ask me that. it completely ignores everything that I’ve put into the sport. Do people really fucking think that I went to practice & worked out every single day, restricted my diet, bruised up my body, lost my weekends to tournaments, got into endless arguments with my parents, received sexist remarks from classmates and other wrestlers and other shit just to meet a fucking boy?! Jesus fucking christ. it seems like women can’t fucking do anything without someone thinking it’s for a man. Well guess fucking what? My life does not and never will revolve around finding a man. I do not dress for you. I do not have sex just for your pleasure. I do not take up activities for you. I do not smile for you. I do not fucking exist for you.
(Source: vivalavulvaa)
