What about encouraging men to talk with their partners about sex, find out what they do and don’t want to do, and get an enthusiastic “yes” before proceeding? Teaching men communication skills that will lead to a happy “yes” is more productive than ordering them to respect a “no,” especially since not all sexual violence survivors verbally say “no” when they’re being assaulted.

Men and Sexual Violence: Moving Beyond ‘No Means No’ (via fuckmedapperqueer)

even better, let’s teach this to everyone………

(via insurrectionarygrapefruit)